"An extraordinary life has become my best medicine and wisest teacher" -Demelza Danquist
I choose to be free
As a 13 year old immigrant to rural United States amongst spur-wearing cowboys and more cows than people, I felt like a stranger in a strange land.
I arrived to this new world with my parents and sister, two suitcases, a diagnosis of turrets syndrome and ADHD, a thick South African accent and little to no self-esteem. I stood out and that was the LAST thing I wanted.
So, I decided to change. I changed my accent, I acted in ways that people who “fit in” acted and did activities “cool kids” did. I learned to adapt, make friends and fit into a box of belonging which is all I really sought after.
By the age of 16 and having moved again, I had this “changing to fit in” game down to an art. I quickly found my role and played it well. I am after all, someone who loves to do their best at what they choose to do. So I became the best at doing what it took to feel like I belonged, even if it meant forgetting my truest self!
As we all know, this false game catches up to us and my soul was screaming! But the doctors called it clinical depression.
At 17 years old, I made a choice that has changed the course of my life. Because there lives within me someone who knows that there is something I CAN DO internally to shift the way I feel and ultimately choose to thrive in this world without imposed limitations and pharmaceuticals.
And there began my sojourn which I am proudly still navigating, medication free, wildly in love with who I am, my life and the direction it continues to take. I am now a parent of two phenomenal beings, living in Mexico and supporting people all over the world to set themselves free from internal captivity of false beliefs and limitations.
You are free as well.
I love supporting my clients in releasing the false, outdated and experiencing a free life of thriving...it begins with you.
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Experience massive transformation and release in these dynamic and powerfully supportive experiences while luxuriating and connecting with other powerful people ready to massively impact themselves in order to impact the world.
She will create a powerful, bespoke experience for your custom journey. These are intensive 5 day one-on-one experiences that facilitate massive release and access to your highest and greatest self, alignment and supporting integrating your aligned self into all aspects of your business and life.
while learning how to self regulate, navigate and create from a state of well-being, free from the past and clear on your forward direction. These process are designed to facilitate self sufficiency for life's inevitable change and expansion.
Use breath, sensory perception, language, visualization, and correct thinking to transmute the physical sensations and habitual patterns of anxiety. Detaching from the past and releasing yourself from the expectations of the future can free up the flow of energy which we call creation...allowing you to stay present with what is, and taking control of your part in what can be.
You are not your thoughts but your thoughts and language are certainly controlling how you feel and perpetuating potentially false beliefs about yourself and in turn your identity. But changing your language isn't enough...intercept your feeling state and shift the frequency and point of attraction/magmatism.
There are so many reasons why I think most talk therapy can be highly beneficial and there are some reason why I think it can do more harm than good. I'll dive into why I think diverting your focus, or some might even call it bypassing, from the past and focusing on the future can be your greatest tool. Energy likes to move, so let go and move on rather than returning to the same loop of "healing".
Auretha C.
Florida, United States
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Stuttgart, Germany